3 Practices to be Heard in Male-Dominated Workplaces

If you’ve ever felt pressure to speak a certain way to be taken seriously, you’re not imagining it.

Women in male-dominated environments often face unconscious bias, being interrupted, and navigating double standards. These dynamics can undermine confidence and limit opportunities.

Before we go further, I want to name something.

When it comes to confident communication in male-dominated environments, this is a layered topic.

Gender is one piece, but it intersects with many other parts of who we are. Identity, personality, learning style, cultural norms, and workplace culture all shape how we communicate and how we are received.

Not feeling heard can be a common challenge for women as well as more introverted or soft-spoken men.

A few things are clear. Suppressing your instincts and presence serves no-one…not you, your team, your organization, nor the people you support.

Your perspective is needed.  and you don’t need to be louder or become someone you’re not in order to share it.

When you know how to use your voice effectively you can speak with authenticity and impact.

Because your voice is an instrument that can be trained…

And being able to persuade, motivate, and inspire your listeners is a skill you can learn.

Three Skills to Help you be Heard in Male Dominated Environments.

1. Connect to the Deeper Meaning

So many professionals I work with are deeply thoughtful and well prepared. But their message gets caught in their head.

Instead of focusing on the right words, connect to the meaning behind what you want to say.

Try this:

• Read a short sentence or line from what you want to share.
• Pause. Close your eyes. Visualize what you’re actually talking about. What feeling or deeper meaning is behind those words? Why is what you are saying important?
• Then say it again from that place.

Language has specific meaning that evokes thoughts, feelings, memories, and even pictures in the minds of your listeners. By connecting to the deeper meaning of your message, you will naturally engage your listeners.

2. Practice Using Descending Melodies

Some of my female or soft-spoken male clients struggle with trailing off, or getting caught in a pitch upswing at the end of statements.

Using a descending melody—a natural drop in pitch at the end of a sentence—will help to signal authority.

Try this:

• Choose a simple sentence and practice saying it out loud.
• Imagine that your voice is walking down a staircase at the end of the sentence. Let your voice step down to land your point.
• At the end of your sentence think to yourself “Period, that’s the end”, then move on to your next thought.

Remember, instead of trying to mimic male voices, the goal is to expand your expressive range.  It’s important to use both ascending and descending melodies to speak in a way that is engaging and feels natural to you. This practice is about breaking vocal patterns at the end of sentences and being able to command authority when required.

3. Focus on Your Audience Receiving your Message

Being in the spotlight can activate deep nervous system responses, especially for professionals who’ve experienced being interrupted, dismissed, or talked over.

To stay grounded, picture your message traveling from you to your listener. There is a reason you are speaking. It is likely to help others understand or learn something. Remind yourself, “It’s not about me and my performance. I am the vehicle for this message.”

Try this

• Sit or stand with your feet grounded.
• Take a few slow breaths.
• Feel your body supported by the ground beneath you.
• Imagine your message traveling outward to the person or group you are speaking to.

This helps move your focus from self-monitoring to connecting. It reminds your body that it is safe to take up space. Le

Key Takeaways

Confident communication isn’t about adjusting yourself to fit a mold. It’s about finding ways to stay connected to your voice and values in spaces that might not always feel designed for you.

Many professionals in male-dominated spaces struggle to feel heard and this experience is shaped by many factors beyond gender.

You can increase your impact by connecting deeply to your message, breaking vocal patterns that signal uncertainty, and letting your voice out to land and be heard by your listeners.

Let’s Continue the Conversation

I would love to hear your perspective. What other conversations are vital to helping to shift this dynamic in the workforce?

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